Commit to the potential of America
If you’ve lost someone to war or conflict, every day is a kind of Memorial Day. For the rest of us, once a year we are called upon to actively honor the sacrifice of our uniformed men and women who’ve died in service to our nation.
People have a “tendency ... to forget the purpose of Memorial Day and make it a day for games, races and revelry, instead of a day of memory and tears.”
No, this is not a recent tweet or a pithy social media caption. It was uttered by a veteran in 1913, who felt the meaningfulness of Memorial Day was slipping through the American conscience.
While the nuances of Memorial Day are debated in the historical community, the most important takeaway is that its origins are in the Civil War. This is of particular note because every American lost someone in that bloody conflict. An estimated 752,000 were killed — 2.4-percent of the population in 1860.
Comparatively, if 2.4-percent were killed in our wars with Iraq and Afghanistan right now, the dead would total 7.8 million. That’s more Americans than died in World War I, World War II, Korea, Vietnam, Afghanistan and Iraq combined.
So when Memorial Day, or Decoration Day in its infancy, was established, every single American was memorializing or remembering someone killed at war. The burden was shared and the cost of war was well understood by the entire nation.
In a different way, the same might be said about nearly every conflict until 1973, when the draft was abolished. Arguably, the civilian-military divide has only grown wider since then, with less than 1-percent of our population serving in Iraq or Afghanistan.
Simply put, there are entire towns across America whose families have not sent a single son or daughter to our nation’s longest war.
In an effort to combat this nonchalance and societal malaise, Congress established a National Moment of Remembrance to be observed every Memorial Day at 3 p.m. The time is intentional, predicated on the belief it is when most Americans are the busiest, bustling about and enjoying their day. Great intention, poor execution.
We need fewer moments of silence and more moments of talking about service and sacrifice to our younger generations. It is not in the multitude of silence that change occurs, it is in moments when thousands of men and women who’ve “borne the battle” raise their voices in memory of those who have gone before.
If we are to truly honor those who gave their last full of measure of devotion, we must be active, not passive, in our efforts to impress those values upon the broader public.
We are most at risk when we forget where we come from, where we’ve been, and who was there.
The last vestiges of the Greatest Generation are upon us, as the Korean and Vietnam War veterans enter their twilight.
Too soon, the burden of remembering will be passed along to those who did not experience such things firsthand. The post-9/11 veteran generation must recognize its promise to uphold the honor and dignity of their sacrifice, while sharing our own.
We must volunteer again, this time to speak at a local elementary, middle or high school — our presence a tangible reminder that “freedom is never more than one generation away from extinction.”
Schools, universities and employers must open their doors and their minds. Not as a handout, but as an acknowledgment that every American is beholden to the future of our nation and the inculcation of its values.
Even in a time when our differences feel vast and insurmountable, we can and must rally around this cause.
There are no shortages of threats to life and liberty.As you enter into your festivities, be it a barbecue or a trip to the cemetery whose hollowed ground holds someone dear, commit to the potential of America. Seek out opportunities to engage veterans, past, present and future, so together we can honor the sacrifice and service of those who have gone before while realizing the promise of an even brighter future.
Meaghan Mobbs is a clinical psychology predoctoral fellow at Columbia University. She is a West Point graduate. former Army captain and Afghanistan veteran.